Back to School Anxiety

 

Introduction

§    The transition into a new school year can be a time of excitement and stress. Children and adults can become anxious, irritable or depressed by this major change.

§    Your children may be silent about their back-to-school fears, but that doesn't mean they're anxiety-free.  They also may experience stomach aches, difficulty sleeping, and outright defiance to attend.

§    Your teen is most worried about belonging or having the ability to achieve.

§    The transition from summer to school can be stressful as the thought of experiencing changes such as a new school, new classmates, new teachers, new classes, new schedule, etc.

 

Children 5-12

§    Be honest about your own anxieties as a parent; as this will impact your child’s anxiety.

§    Talk to your child about it- focus on the excitement of returning

§    Provide them some sense of control to include choosing their lunch or how to get to school.

§    Begin a routine prior to school starting

 

Teens

§    Keep communication open and avoid judgment; as wanting to be heard is critical for teens

§    Be aware of patterns that can develop as a result of anxiety to include sluffing, dropping grade, an increase in relationship conflicts.

 

The Night Before

§    Be prepared with all the materials need the night before to avoiding chaos the morning school begins

§    Make sure you get enough sleep and eat a healthy breakfast

§    Appearance and Attitude

 

Summary

§    Having anxiety before school begins is normal

§    As a parent try not to fix the problem, but rather support and coach your child

§    If the symptoms of anxiety persist to the point where they negatively impact their ability to function in school or maintain healthy relationships, consider seeking professional help.

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